STO HTO BUCIN

 Hey readers! It's been a long time i didn't write anything on my blog since i had no idea what to write hahaha.

Now i have an idea about what to write because i just experienced something weird called HTO syndrome.

Maybe that syndrome isn't so familiar for you. That syndrome is commonly known as STO which stands for She is The One (for male) or HTO which stands for He is The One (for female)

In Indonesia, maybe it is popularly called as BUCIN.

You can be considered as a bucin if that you fall in love with someone blindly like

1. You meet that person online but you blindly fall for that person and start stalking everything about his or her private life.

2. You dream day and night that one day you can meet and have nice relationship with that person.

3.You can't be happy without your crush.

4. You cant focus on the real lfe or your goals.

5.You have the need or addiction to contact your crush.

6.You get jealous eventhough you arent even in relationship.

It is not gonna be a big deal if you have STO or HTO with your marriage partner but it is gonna be a serious problem if you get trapped in that syndrom with someone isn't yours. i mean like you don't have a right over that person. or there is only small possibility for you to get married to that person.Like if you first met with someone and all of a sudden you just fall in love and you can't even get that person out of your mind.

STO or HTO syndrome has some bad impacts for human's life like:

1. Ruining mood.

2. Ruining well planned goals.

3. Losing appetite.

3. Falling sick.

4. Etc.

so, a question probably poping up in  your mind be like

"how come does it happen?"

Yeah! when you make someone as your reason to be happy, Once you lose that person of course it means you lose your happiness as well.

But that isnt imposible to get rid of your feeling for that person.

Here are the steps to heal yourself from STO or HTO

1. Delete all the things related to that person.

2. Stay away from everything that reminds you of that person.

3. Cut off the communication and let it die out.

4. Be patient, Be strong and Believe in Yourself that you can do it!

5. Keep being close to God.

6. It is not gonna be easy but it is possible!